Coming to TermS

Do you remember when you were a little human being and you thought about all of the things you would do be and accomplish?? I used to always have this image in my head of this bustling career woman, always thought I would end up being a lawyer, who was balancing work and a couple […]


So, I guess this is a perfectly timed point in my life where I can claim to be so unsettled. Being a week out of a hysterectomy, I find myself reexamining who I am.. where is my life going and how is it that I make it to where I want to be? Many years […]


So… the time has come. I guess this really means I am an adult. Or an adult that is getting old. Not sure that anything up until this point has hit that home as much as having this hysterectomy. I know that I didn’t want to have any more children. I mean, my son is […]

In a previous life

I was cleaning my house today… it’s for sale and when there is a showing, I go a little nuts with the cleaning. As I was Swiffering the hardwood floors, I looked up and came face to face with a picture of my parents. They have both passed away… my dad 14 years ago and […]

What’s your escape?

Listen.. life can be crazy.. sometimes, it feels like I have more appendages than an octopus and I am being pulled in every which direction.  Sometimes, I just need to tune the world out and escape. Sometimes, it’s sleep. Sometimes, it’s a walk.  Lately, because I am worried about an impending surgery, I have found […]

Shampoo for you

Why wouldn’t a 20 year old buy her own toiletries?  I wouldn’t want anyone, even at 20 to buy my own deodorant and razors. Why should someone buy a grown woman pads or tampons? Sure, you pay rent!  But, that barely covers your daily expenses. Toiletries should be that of your own pocket It teaches […]